the replaced PCV hose seems to make all difference in the world, it was a fire breathing dragon tonight.
it was very easy to take apart two tabs hold the back on, and the insides were potted with some clear goo.
i am going to bet that the ICs are amplifiers. but im not going to remove the device and check it out, you can open yours

Opening up the device an seeing what appears to full of amplifiers, the ohm meter reading are pretty much useless, and would explain the 160kohm readings which is almost an open circuit.
As we are only dealing with signals we are not going to need a beefed up ground. i don't think the device has a typical ground, as from your diagrams, the pins are: DPFE, signal, vref; and you measured 5, 0, 5 vdc respectively. i am sure we are sinking though the ECU. vref kinda hints to a comparator circuit of some kind (remember the op-amp circuits you build in high school?)
i installed as per your diagram which agreed with the wiring of the original device. getting tired of the car running like crap, i ran with that and installed the device; after my little hiccup with the PCV it would appear that everything is ok.
your research helped a lot and it and it would appear that ford stayed pretty consistent with design of the sensors (i would not make any sense to give a mechanic grief when ford service is bluebook pricing) i feel the device is installed correctly, the computer is happy and the car is running the best it ever has (tonight), i bought it used.
cheers!
now that the stumble is sorted, we can concentrate on more important things... like go-fast parts.