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#4,664 ·
it tis Friday. only 7 more hrs at work....

I pulled weeds in my future rock bed last night. I think I'm ready to lay fabric and start placing the edgers. My hoe is very helpful, shes dirty. but its supposed to rain tomorrow so I may have to retreat to the garage and work on some other projects.
 
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wants2b rs said:
why cant you sell it?
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Well everyone else kinda knows what is happening in my personal life. Basically I got a text yesterday from my soon-to-be ex-wife saying "I miss you." I was shocked considering that the only reason I have been talking to her the last few days was cause of my daughter. I told her how I feel like she wasn't being fair to me doing this and that she needs to decide what she wants for herself. And if that doesn't involve me then it doesn't. I told her I am not going to sit by and wait for her to decide. I want her to be happy and I told her this multiple times. I feel like I was finally getting to the point where I was ready to start moving on and she then turns around and does this. I feel all kinds of confused. Cause the fact of the matter is I still care for her. And I am still not quite ready to let it all go.

And the reason that I may not be able to get the truck is cause of this. We decided to try counceling to see how it works for us. So I will be spending money on that. Also, if we do end up together again I have a feeling the truck would have to be sold anyway. But I don't know. It may still work out. I just need to go through my finances a little more.
 
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8-5, with an hour for lunch...but I'm generally working through most of lunch.

its a brand new yard so it needs work. I'm excited about it because its MY yard, but its not cheap. I could have bough another SVT with all the "extras" we have done already and we've only been there 8 months.
 
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Brock, do what you have to do man. but honestly this is how i feel about counceling, nobody other then you two can tell you how it is and should be. they may help open up your eyes, BUT you guys are the only ones that can actually "try" shit, i've heard the same things from a therapist that i've heard from my mother.. kinda like the old Bob Dylan lyric, "you don't need a weather man to know which way the wind blows."
good luck with whatever happens, and know us Utahns (ben included) are here for ya to vent!

yeah, we pretty much work the same hours Ben. f'n groundhog day..

tell me about it.. my rents put up a new fence, took out a couple of trees, made a garden, and removed IVY. be thankful you don't have ivy.. that crap is nearly impossible to remove. next up is the garage.. it's used as a storage for the good will atm.. lol
 
#4,669 ·
thats tough......... I hate hearing about stuff like that cause you really just can't say what's gonna happen

I can say, this is the new SVT RAPTOR. WIN!!!!







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#4,671 ·
^^ eh.... I was trying to find dinosaur driving truck but that didn't work.....

oh but I guess this will work too [rofl]

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#4,676 ·
did you watch last nights office? date mike
 
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x FoCuSfReAk x said:
Well everyone else kinda knows what is happening in my personal life. Basically I got a text yesterday from my soon-to-be ex-wife saying "I miss you." I was shocked considering that the only reason I have been talking to her the last few days was cause of my daughter. I told her how I feel like she wasn't being fair to me doing this and that she needs to decide what she wants for herself. And if that doesn't involve me then it doesn't. I told her I am not going to sit by and wait for her to decide. I want her to be happy and I told her this multiple times. I feel like I was finally getting to the point where I was ready to start moving on and she then turns around and does this. I feel all kinds of confused. Cause the fact of the matter is I still care for her. And I am still not quite ready to let it all go.

And the reason that I may not be able to get the truck is cause of this. We decided to try counceling to see how it works for us. So I will be spending money on that. Also, if we do end up together again I have a feeling the truck would have to be sold anyway. But I don't know. It may still work out. I just need to go through my finances a little more.
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all i can say is do what you feel is right man. Sell or no trucks are always going to be around
 
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