Just notice that both of you have 04's and have this issue. Hmmmm....?????
Well truth be told I've never had a problem missing 2nd gear, even without my STS. Also a attempt at a double clutch, or disengaging of the clutch before proper shift will prevent the tranny from going into gear, hence a missed gear. I've been guilty of releasing the clutch too soon and missed 2nd, also costing me the race. My fault all the way, also it was easy to do, and I've been driving a manual since I was 14.
Point is, missing a gear is something every manual driver has done at one time or another. Even the best of drivers have done so. [

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