Ya! That is a good thread (mostly). I posted to it as well. But here is the thing. You have to define a normal. Anything else is abnormal. 103 is not normal, overgapping is not normal etc. Now as you started with a problem that may be a bad COP (just sayin), lets review a comment by wickedgreyzx3 in the thread
"The AR103 is identicle to the A103, but it has a groove cut in the electrode and the electrode is nickle plated. It is also way more electro magnetic interferance resitant than any plug out there, which is not benificial to us using coil on plug". So, the AR103 has a double negative. IMHO > Before you can run this plug, you have to have a solid ignition system (and even then there surrounded by caveats).
wickedgreyzx3 makes that assumption (rightly) when he posted. Now! as this pertains to you. I run A104s with the strap trimmed 2mm (just like the AR103). AND, I can gap them to .060 and the car runs really well (wait for it), UNTIL > I get to particular high load conditions where I will experience a very intermittent misfire. In that config though I am really on the outer edge of what we know is permissible. I now gap to .055 (which is technically to wide, and I still trim the straps) and I don't have the issue. Just sayin, get your misfire issue sorted 1st, then retry with your AR103s if you want. [wiggle]
P.S. Totally off subject, but your aware of the COP plug issue? The clip that holds the plug in the COP is prone to breaking If it is cold outside. suggest you warm them up with a hair dryer before you mess with them. Several folks have broken them, so just FYI.