Well the people at NAPA looked at me like I was an idiot, again, when I took the housing in to find an o-ring that fits. Their response was "why not just get the whole thing?" Ummm...because I don't want to spend $50+ when I could spend a few bucks on an o-ring. So I decided I'm just going to order some o-rings and hopefully have my car running again by the weekend, so that I can take my car into the shop Monday to diagnose and hopefully fix my electrical problem I'm having (another headache in and of itself). I like the idea of upgrading to the Contour housing and everything, but $120 is a bit out of the price range at this time.
So now about the big "o-ring" that goes between the t-stat housing and the block? It kind of sits in the housing and seals to the block. Is that easy to come by? Does it have a bad history of not sealing back up when re-used? Round it hurt anything to throw some high-temp RTV gasket maker on there when I reassemble everything?
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Found the thermostat-housing-to-head gasket, it is "Duralast/Felpro p/n 35606"