You won't be able to get low speed without some way to kick power down there. One could simply power up one or two fans both at high speed and variably but now you're at two mods not one.
The resistor is very reliable, it not being so means you are doing something wrong.
Run bigger wire if you think the current is melting them and use the exhaust manifold heatshield if one is not present, it lowers the temps there greatly. If header then make one up. With stock parts in place the harness will last for years, at least they do here in Texas. The wiring needs a covering over it too.
One could easily move all the interconnections there somewhere else to only have the power leads only coming down there and grounds going out.