It's from under the car. You'll be looking for the shift mechanism which should be located on the firewall side of the transmission. Once you're under the car and in position, you'll be able to see the colored inserts on the shifter cables. Just look at the colored photo in the link I gave to to get an idea of what you're looking for.
yea i seen that it was with the other 1 u gave me i dont get wat the other 1 was talking about tho? you helper hold the shifter in neutral. i do something with the linkage? and he moves the shifter knobs 2 neutral or something like that this is where i get confused