Ok, let's break this problem down into pieces:
When you turn the key to the run position the chime stays on and does not shut off.
This is normal behaviour when you leave the keys in the ignition with the ignition
off.
Nothing on the dash board lights up! and the car will not go out of park. And the windows will not go up. the car will not start
All normal behaviour with ignition off.
I have tried everything I can think of with the key unlocking the door manually or with the the button, undid the batterie for a hour with the headlights turned on.
Not sure of the point of doing any of these things.
tested the batterie and its good.
Good being 12,6V+, right? Regardless, I assume the battery isn't even attempting to turn the engine over (i.e. it's a no turn over, no start vs a turn over, no start situation) so it sounds like starter isn't being "prompted" to engage.
So what's the PATS (Passive Anti Theft System) light in the middle of the dash doing during an attempted start? Flashing at a normal rate as usual or flashing rapidly or did it go out when the key was inserted and turned? Is it permanently off? All clues as to what position the PCM "sees" the ignition key in.
Initially it sounds to me as your ignition switch is broken. i.e. regardless of how the key is turned, it's not operating anything. That's
not the key and tumbler on the right side of the column but the actual switch mechanism the key operates. May be as simple as a loose electrical connection or something n the switch could be broken. You'd need to undo the steering column cowling to have a look.