Posting some pics to try and help out as much as I can... Okay... not my official write up, but trying to give people a boost.
Basically - you have a "
Relay Harness", two "
Resistor Harnesses" and an HID Kit (2 Ballasts and 2 Bulbs)...
You'll notice that the "
Relay Harness" has two ballast male connectors with open ground wires - A short wire with a male connector (for driver side ballast), a long wire with a male connector (for passenger side ballast) and also a shorter wire with a female connector (for driver side car headlight connector).
DRIVER SIDE:
1 - Using the "
Relay Harness" connect the fused red wire to the + side of your battery:
2 - Take the shorter wire with the female connector from the "
Relay Harness":

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and plug in one of your "
Resistor Harnesses" male connector in it:
3 - Now plug the car's male connector from the Headlight into the female connector of your "
Resistor Harness":
4 - Screw in your HID bulb and Plug in your bulbs/ballasts connectors:
5 - Plug the driver side male connector from the "
Relay Harness" into the ballast and screw down both Ground wires from the "
Resistor Harness" & "Relay Harness" to car chassis:
PASSENGER SIDE:
1 - This one is really easy - You will NOT be using the male connector from the 2nd "
Resistor Harness"... You'll only need to plug in the car's Headlight connector into the female side of it:
2 - Connect the "
Relay Harness" long male connector into the Ballast and once again, screw down the Ground wires for both the "Resistor Harness and Relay Harness down to the car's chassis: (I used one of the fender's mounting bolts)
Hope this helps and doesn't confuse you guys any further!
Personally, I'm no longer getting the dipped beam error message, however, I haven't found the best mounting spots for either one of my ballasts... and I also haven't mounted my resistors in secure enough locations... as I mentioned before, they're dangling in my fender walls for now...