Seems like you are at the point of eating the $$, never buying a Ford again, and getting something that makes you happy. Swapping in a standard auto seems like WAY too much of a hassle even if it is possible. There are times in life where you simply buy something you don't like...even a car...and the only fix is getting something else.
If its not grown it's mined!
2013 Ingot Silver Focus SE HB manual, 201a, winter pkg, moonroof. Snorkel delete/K&N drop-in and a bunch of little stuff. Great sticker placement.