Well the new bumper and new headlights signify more than a normal "bumper replacement" from a wreck. My 2004 with 2.3 and auto with 116K was issued a salvage title after a front end crash. We replaced the front bumper, headlights, headlight/header panel, hood, grill and one fender and the driver seatbelt locked up and had to be replaced, no air bags deployed. Zero front sub-frame damage. No suspension damage, it was all cosmetic. So just to say it was issued salvage because a flimsy plastic bumper cover is BS, the fact they stopped talking to you is a red flag, Keep looking!! Goodluck!
Hatch Nation #22//March '13 HOTM