So just sort of a final update. I went back to the tire shop (really nice people) and they showed me that one of the wheels are off center as in one of the lug nut holes is damaged and hence even if it is torqued properly, the wheel will not sit centered since it is not hub centric. So with all that, we decided to just switch back to my OEM alloys and mount the winters there. Problem is now solved.
So for me in the future, I will just buy OEM alloy wheels that are hub centric so this sort of stuff doesn't happen. My steelies are just sitting there now. I'm just probably gonna sell it to the junk yard or something.