Zillon, thanks for all you're doing. I was about to re-torque mine this morning and figured I should check for new developments. Good thing I did. I'm willing to try a fix since it doesn't seem like Ford is doing anything about this. If it's a case of bad/wrong bolts or torque specs then it seems like they aren't looking to hard for a solution or they would have found this by now.
By the way, mine isn't listed as having the handling package.