Yeah it is bad enough my car has messed up since the ride home from the dealer (funny how it was fine for the test drive...X2) but for you it was only after an "update"! So you had a nice shifting car and it was taken from you. It is petty clear that Ford is struggling with this transmission. I know people hate standard torque converter transmissions, but I would bet that Ford spent a lot less money on warranties with them and they did not sour their image with many customers.
Build date 8/11/2011 - MFT no Nav V 3.2.2- new SJB (Smart Junction Box) installed on 6/23/2012 with reprogramming of BCM