Dealer did another attempt. Updated his tech diagnostics tools to newest version (IDS-VCM). Update for APIM configuration then was available. After APIM update, 4 more attempts at re-flash of V3.2.2 upgrade worked to some extent.
Got my climate controls and USB functionality back but lost incoming messaging. Wish I had stayed on V3.02. At least messaging worked.
The good news is I learned NOT to do any further updates until it is confirmed by the community NOT Ford.