wow that is a lot of problems.
I have experienced a few of them myself. The transmission update corrected most of the issues related to feeling like the car is going to stall and the jerky shifting for me. I am currently waiting for parts to come in to repair that steering wander issue at highway speeds. Maybe once a month, usually longer, I have to reset the time on MFT manually. With your presets being blank, that happens on my car too sometimes, but if you change from say FM1 to FM2 to FM3, the preset will show the station again. Also, sometimes my screen goes blank but it is usually updating or sending out a report.
You still have far more serious problems than I have. The rain sensing wipers are sometimes quirky but most of the time work as designed.
I hope everything works out.