Honestly the ball is in your court. Because with you holding my refund hostage, you're playing the role pretty well. Save face and show everyone your not a scrammer or scum bag and send me my refund that I DESERVE.
If not, no biggie, I can wait ten days. - have already waited over a 2 weeks for a car part that probably doesn't even exist.
But ask yourself this, if you were a shopper and saw that a guy was with holding refunds to people when they requested them. Would you buy from that guy?