ok. I know about the focushacks picture of jacking and jackstand locations but call me an idiot, I am confused.

If I want to put my car on all four jack stands how do I do it?

First, If I try to jack at the pinchwelds it will crush them as my jack has a large round service, nothing with a slot. I know I can make or buy a peice that will have a slot thus fix that problem.

Fronts, I figure I can jack up at the pinch welds then put the jackstands under the front crossmember locations.

Rears, if I jack up at the pinch welds I cant put a jackstand in place. Do I use the jack on the rear cross member to do this? I read a post that said it isn't the strongest place the use?

Can someone enlighten me?