Yeah, I'm leaning towards the oe kit. Here is the one I'm looking at http://focus.c-f-m.com/exedyoequalit...3lduratec.aspx
It looks like it comes with bearings... unless that's a misleading picture. I'll probably be calling them tomorrow.
The reason why I said that the flywheels are the same, I'm sure you know more about them then me, is because looking at fswerks site, both the stage one kit and oe kit say that they come with 12.5lb flywheels. I could only assume that they are the same. But I'll be making calls tomorrow for more details on them both.