iirc you can select which is the primary phone and sync should connect to that phone first.
I have a similar situation, I paired my iPhone and my wifes flip phone. My phone is set to be primary. When we are both in the car Sync connects to my phone. I have turned mine off and it will then pair with her phone.
But turning bluetooth off on your phone would cause her phone to connect to sync.
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