#1 I do not know the answer to this problem. By turning the car off, it is like restarting your computer. That works, but it should not be happening.
#2 The lifetime regen always reads 99 and it is a computer glitch. Ford is addressing the issue.
#3 My cruise control works similarly to what you are saying. I turn on crusie control and a symbol come up. I set the speed and a diagonal line passes through the symbol. I put my foot on the brake and the diagonal line disappears. It never tells me the speed in numbers. I did not know the diagonal line was a speed indicator, I always thought it simply ment it was engaged.
#4 You have to put the information in through MyFordMobile.com
#5 The same happens to me occasionally.
I am very pleased with my vehicle also. Delivered 5/29/12 and now has 7000 miles on the odometer. $910.00 in gasoline savings still in my pocket. Good Luck, Wood