We are getting our update this Friday. I really have no issues with the car at all other than the chatter/grind in low gear shifts. It really is smooth and is exactly what I expected from the DCT. We are still under 300 miles (stopped driving it when I learned of the new FSA) so maybe the gear noise will go away with miles and/or with the FSA update. Fingers crossed and I will report back with our results.
Honestly, the car is quite nice and performs well. I have no "shuddering" and no problems really. It performs well. I just want the "noisey" shift gone so I don't feel like I am ruining anything.