I'm back, it took an hour to do.
The dealer pulled the bulletin and let me read it.
Here is the jest of what I read;
Intelligent Oil Timer is to be reset; I'm guessing this is to fix the premature indicator that you need oil changed or result of it not telling you.
TCM reflash to resolve jerkiness and rough shifting, resolve the roll back when transitioning from brake pedal to gas pedal.
ABS reflash did not specify why; I couldn't find anything in the bulletin about it.
I feel it made a big difference. My transmission is a lot smoother than it was and now it doesn't roll back on an incline as if I had a manual transmission. I like it. I just hope it stays this way because the jerkiness was annoying the piss out of me. I don't have any shudder, never did, so I can't comment if this will fix any shuddering you may be having.