IowannaLuvMyFocus and sirhawkeye,
I know having these concerns can be frustrating. Please PM me with your VIN, contact information, mileage, & servicing dealer name/state and I will assist with your transmission issues.
I appreciate your realistic view. You are correct, concerns on this site are not an indication of an issue that affects every Focus. I know it seems like everyone is having the same concern, and while the symptoms may be the same, the causes may be different. The software updates have resolved the shifting differences for most customers, and I am happy to help those who still have concerns. If you need assistance with your Focus, please let me know.