Oooohh, beeeotcchhh. Finally got my lower/rear VF mount in after one failed attempt. I must say the hardest part was getting the holes lined up between the mount and the subframe, that probably took me 20 mins of swearing and grunting.
The does shake the car noticeably now, but I raised idle to 900, which cleared it up.
Just moving the wagon up and down the driveway I saw an improvement in feel and engagement. Can't wait to get on the twisties and shuffle through the gears